You want to help but feel helpless!!~ :O(

 I should say that people, in general, constantly amaze me!! A blogger posted an article on their blog site that had the following sentences in it--wonder if they ever read what they post from other people??

"And finally, confront homophobia, including internalized homophobia. Don't accept being treated as a second-class citizen by straight society or by other gay folks.
Don't emphasize body size or shape as an indication of a man's worth or his identity as a man. Learn to value the person inside"

This from a person, who in my opinion, is a self hating gay homophobe--this person NEVER has anything good to say about gays (plus many other groups this person condemns like effeminate men, gay men who try to be healthy by losing weight, democrats, liberals, people who will be voting for Obama, in general people who don't think like they do--almost sounds like joerepublic! LOL) They claim to be a proud gay person but all their heroes are nongay men, who accused Peter, from Australia, of not showing respect to their beliefs just because he is gay!!!  This person treats all gay society as second-class citizens.

Needless to say this persn hates me and I take that as a compliment--they hate me so much they call me names (actually endearments!! LOL), reads all my blogs and is constantly talking about me--now I do read all their blogs, their comments and talk about them in my blogs because it is like looking at a train wreck knowing disaster is up ahead but not because I hate them but because I wish they would go for help and make the changes they want to make in their life instead of talking about it for over a year and having hundreds of excuses not to.

They are constantly lashing out at people who mean them no harm but just have a different opinion which is a no-no in their book--they will bar them, ban them, call them names, accuse them of trying to do them in, limit them to how many words they can use in a comment (and then go on other people's blogs and post  in comments almost a  whole blog)--I mean how low can someone feel about themselves that they would rant and rave at a woman whose son has just committed suicide? They talk about how fearless and mean and wicked and evil and tough and smart they are, and can be, but they don't seem brave enough to face up to their own problems and work on them. Oh, yes, they have all sorts of excuses why they can't change now, why they can't do what they want to do with their life now, etc. Instead they lash out at people who care for them-even people they consider friends, which from what I can gather just from their blogs they don't have any in real life.

They dislike me because I have a good, fullfilling life with a positive outlook so this will just give them a chance to rant, rave, call me names, e-mail bosses, throw out threats, etc. Sort of reminds me of my mother--the unhappier she was the happier she was--and that is a sad person

I just wish they would 'show me'  by getting their life together!